Confessions of a cougar dating younger men
You’ve been through it all in life, and a young man feels like there’s so much to learn from you. You might be attracted to his zest for life, but he loves the fact that you’ve got your life together and won’t take any shit.“One of the biggest reasons why do younger men like older women is: life experience. They know things the younger girls can only dream of!This obviously translates into various departments – whether relating to what’s going on inside her mind or what happens inside the bedroom.” The older you are, the experience you have. Following, there was the charismatic film exec with any number of bombshells waiting to pounce. He was drawn to humor, brains, and confidence born from a lack of inhibition that accompanies age. And when he took off his clothes, I was transported. I conceded to a sexting relationship that was sincere, supportive, and included super-hot sex via cellular devices. He was funny, energetic, and creative, with a job, house, ex-wife, and children. If I wanted that sort of treatment, I’d have stayed married. Then my 50-year-old self had sex with a 30-something man who was everything a man could be at any age. None of these encounters proved successful; most left me feeling sad. 3 told me — while I was naked and vulnerable — that I should, “lose 20 pounds and put some double D’s in there,” I pledged to hang up my dating shoes for good. And as I stood before him — while I was naked and vulnerable — he told me I was beautiful inside and out. And, I promise, any man who has the pleasure of her company considers himself lucky. I just had a conversation about this today and about a month ago I went to a get together with my girlfriends who invited their girlfriends.
I continued and told her,”By the time you are my age, breakups lose their sting and one is able to get over someone very quickly.” This is what led to me revealing how really old I was and she got REALLY mad and thought I was lying because the whole time we were talking, she assumed I was 26. I was like perfect; handsome- check, black- check, loves Jesus- check……He was 27. I had the age talk with him and he said, “Don’t bother proving your age to me because you guys in Kenya can get another passport.” Seriously.
Gareth Rubin in The Telegraph explains it perfectly: “You’ll understand when you’re older.’ Literally everyone has heard those maddening words, and yet when you’re in a relationship with someone older than you – going to dinner together, choosing a flat together et al – you realise just how true it is.” Rich life experience is hard to come by, and a man will mature more quickly if they have someone to learn from.
What’s more, you’ve had experience with different types of men, and you can easily point out the young man’s flaws and opportunities for growth. According to Alan Angal, 36, he was attracted to his older fiancée, Jennifer Siegner, 45, for her stability: And while you might think that young men only want something quick, it’s not entirely true.
This state has been unceremoniously thrust into my lap. But I have a little problem; I don’t seem to be growing old.
I’m not bragging, it’s the weirdest thing ever and everyone I meet and tells my REAL age goes into an hour long conversation of how that could not be true…..apparently I am very immature and my body does not show signs of aging.