Dating advisor

She's super cute, very nice, independent , and successful. However, I'm not sure I'm looking at this like it's going to be forever. I never had any real "bachelor period" in my life where I'm single and having lots of exciting encounters, and shorter term relationships.

Most of the qualities I'm looking for in a girlfriend. It's scary to think that she could be it, forever. I do really like her, and it makes so much sense to stay with her because she has so many qualities I'm looking for. I realize you might say that only happens in movies but I'd like to at least have some version of that.

"Please don't assume we're going to the nicest restaurant in the city because I won't take you there.

I'll take you to a dive bar with amazing burgers to see how you react.

resize=480:*""First dates are best kept quick and noncommittal for both parties—unless you've known each other for a while. Opt for something that gives you both an easy out, like lunch or a drink.

Invite your guy and his crew to hang in a big group.

That way you can get a feel for what he's normally like around his buddies and it'll let you both relax a bit more.

If you're flowing with it and cool, we've got a winner.

If you seem offended by it, that's as far as we go." —Steve M."Girls should try to avoid pre-judging before a first date.

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