Deal ex girlfriend dating
His other friends and parents agree with me, but I can’t get him see it from any other point of view.At the heart of the issue, this sort of thing stems from your own fears.My boyfriend is still in close contact with his most recent ex in a way which is troubling me.I know he has remained close to a few of his ex’s which doesn’t concern me at all (he has the right to be friends with anyone) but the most recent ex is still extremely needy.After you heard their opinion once, that was enough.Now you’re starting to resent them saying anything to you…If I were in your situation, I would do whatever I could to avoid the subject of this ex-girlfriend altogether.
The fact is that just about any high-quality guy out there is going to have ex-girlfriends. You may not mind some of his ex’s and other ex’s you may absolutely hate.
It was insecurity at its finest, and it’s not a male thing- it’s a human thing. I needed to learn to trust my own instincts – to trust that I would know something was wrong if my relationship was bad, not because I felt jealous or uncomfortable about a relationship she had.
Frankly, people are going to do whatever they want to do anyway.
Now I only have limited information, but in past situations like this women have told me it stems from the fear that he might have feelings for her or that he’s not totally over her.
Fear that she might do something to screw up your relationship with him.