Woman on line for sex love dating
With these kind of guys, I’ve felt like I was their dirty little secret, and at first, I thought this type of interaction was the closest thing to a relationship I was going to have as a trans woman.
But I finally reached my limit when one of my dates bumped into someone he knew when we were together.
As I click, message and swipe through the world of online dating, I’ve quickly learned that there are at least three different types of guys: those who fetishize trans women, those who are curious but cautious, and those who simply don’t read.
There’s no bigger turn-off than someone who does the bare minimum—except maybe body odour. Being 5’9″, I still like to be able to look up to my man, literally.
After realizing that I deserved so much better and was wasting my time with these guys, I stopped giving them attention.
After one too many encounters with men who were fetishizing me, I started to spend time on guys who actually wanted to get to know me.
Another guy made sure even his social media presence wasn’t linked to mine.
He lied about not having an Instagram account, then when I “came across it” and liked one of his pictures in spite, he blocked me.